Vincent Ehindero Blog Award

I’ve received a nomination for a Vincent Ehindero Blog Award from Lotus Laura! If you haven’t already checked out her awesome blog, I recommend stopping by. She recently made some design updates while continuing to post on a variety of personal, spiritual, and cultural topics. Thank you, Laura!

The Rules:

  1. Thank the person who nominated you with a link to their blog.
  2. Make a post of the award (with a photo of the logo).
  3. Post the rules.
  4. Ask 5-10 questions of your choice.
  5. Nominate 10-30 other bloggers (or more) and notify them.

Laura’s Questions

1. What is your favorite thing to write with (computer, phone, pen, pencil, typewriter, etc.) and why?

I’m a pencil person! I type my blog drafts straight into the computer because I’m often researching and citing while I work, but for fiction, I have to write the first draft by hand. Otherwise, I’ll spend hours staring at a blinking cursor instead of writing.

As for pencil versus pen, I find pencil is more forgiving. I took a writing class where we were required to use a pen for first drafts to stop “recursive editing,” the official term for rewriting your first sentence so many times that you never get past it. I do try to avoid stopping to correct every wobble, but sometimes I misspell words or names in my haste and it’s better that I stop to correct them then rather than to come back and be confused at my own draft.

2. How do you cheer yourself up on a bad day?

Spending time with my cats can be a real mood-booster. I might also indulge in a fun show or book. If it was a really bad day, though, I might give myself a purposeful crying session to let out the tension. Or work on a really dark story.

3. What is one question that you never want to be asked?

It’s hard to think of one specific question I would never want to be asked, but there is a type of question that I hate: moral dilemmas. You know, where they ask you if you’d push a fat man into the path of a train to save a person on the tracks. I get that these questions are aimed at showing your values and whatnot, but it infuriates me that they pose these uncomfortable scenarios and then limit the options to two. Reality is so complex that only rarely will such a narrow range of choices occur, and if we don’t train ourselves to look for them, we might miss a better option.

What’s worse is that these dilemmas are often unrealistic or really don’t give enough data to make a good choice. There’s one where you decide whether to murder someone to save 5 or 7 people who need organ transplants. What are the odds that this one person is compatible with all those people and that they all need different organs? Or there’s one where you’re in a boat stuck in acceleration and your options are to crash into the beach and kill one person, crash and kill three people, or crash into a rock and kill yourself. Is there seriously no empty spot on the beach? Probably you could make one by yelling, “Get out of the way! My boat will kill you!” You could also turn the boat in circles until it runs out of gas and gravity applies the breaks or aim at the rock and jump off the back. The world is not binary!

4. What’s a hobby of yours that no one really knows about?

It’s not a full-fledged hobby yet, but I’ve tried my hand at archery a few times. I really wanted to build my own bow and arrows for a while, but I decided I should train on something more standard before I got too ambitious. Sadly, I haven’t been able to take lessons because of current conditions and I don’t have a great place to practice at home.

5. What is the last holiday you celebrated and how did you celebrate it?

I guess that would be New Year’s Eve. I didn’t do a whole lot because I was mainly focused on keeping my cats as calm as possible when the fireworks went off. Honestly, I tend to do more for Lunar New Year’s than Julian New Year’s. It’s just easier for me to connect with the rituals for bringing in new luck compared to staying up late.

6. How do you deal with anxiety?

I have a whole arsenal of techniques for anxiety. Right now, the first options I use are singing certain songs in my head or purposely slowing my breath and pace if I have only my brain available, sniffing lavender essential oil if that’s on hand, or knitting if I’m at home.

7. Who to you turn to for comfort?

My mom. I’m lucky enough to have a pretty close relationship with her. She’s not perfect, but she listens and even if we fight she’s willing to work with me to resolve things.

8. If your life was a book, what would the genre be?

Maybe magical realism. My life is pretty mundane for the most part, but I have had a few mysterious experiences. Nothing flashy like visions or ghosts, but once I lost a handmade necklace in a park. Several days later, it turned up in the nest of a banished hen at my home, which is in a different town than the park. It was absolutely unique, and I searched long and hard when I lost it, so I have no way to explain how it got in that nest.

9. Do you have any “good luck charms” you keep with you?

I’ve had a rotating cast of charms I’ve kept with me. One is a Lucky Knots that I carry in my purse. It’s not necessarily for luck, but holding it often eases my anxiety. I also sometimes carry a penny in a pocket or special stones.

My questions

  1. Name a food you never get tired of eating.
  2. Do you feel more alert in the morning, the afternoon, or the evening?
  3. How would you describe your approach to blogging? Is it for business? For fun? Something else?
  4. What do you do when it rains?
  5. Who makes you laugh?
  6. What eats your time?
  7. If you were on a quest, which would you prefer for a companion: a talking animal, an intelligent machine, or a random human being?

My Nominees:

Mental Health 360

The 3H: health,happiness,healing

Chocoviv’s Lifestyle Blog

The Truth

Middle Me

The Hindu Mythology

Sui Generis

Stuart Danker

KS Blogs

Macalderblog

33 thoughts on “Vincent Ehindero Blog Award

  1. Great answers!!!
    1) Wow, brilliant idea to write first drafts with a pencil instead of computer. I may try that.
    2) Relatable 100%!
    3) AHH SAME! I’ll never forget my high school health teacher asking all of us who we would save out of a group of 5 people of different ages and background stories. Absolutely awful, no right answer, and you will never be in the position to make that call anyway. Just makes you feel horrible.
    4) That is so cool! I’ve tried archery once or twice and it’s tough but so much fun. Sadly they only seem to offer these things at resorts. Hopefully you can find a way to get more practice in the future.
    5) Yeah, I didn’t even stay up past midnight on NYE!
    6) Wonderful techniques.
    7) So sweet!
    8) Wow, crazy! I’ve found that magic is powerful in the most subtle ways!
    9) Super cool! 🙂

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    1. Thank you, and thanks so much for nominating me!

      Wow, that is a more detailed version of the moral dilemma, but honestly adding the ages and backgrounds seems like it would make it more uncomfortable, like they’re trying to catch you being ageist or something.

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  2. Your nomination has not caught my attention. That was coming since your blog has an unsurpassed quality. The contents are very interesting and you can see that your professionalism when preparing an article is evident. So for sure you will have the reward you deserve and many more nominations will come.
    Thanks for your kindness to mention my blog. A big hug and may the successes continue because you have it well deserved.

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  3. Thanks so much for the nomination! Am honoured that you’d think of me. I for one enjoyed reading your post, because it’s always fun to get to know a fellow blogger better. I guess I’m the yin to your yang, in that I’m a fountain pen user all the way. Loved this.

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  4. Those were some solid answers. The moral dilemma, what a wonderful take on it. I just hope people start waking up to reality. They are some of the most difficult ones to solve anyways.
    I totally agree with you about pencils. I just love how they make you feel more connected to your work, and of course, the chance to make changes is what makes them the best I’d say.
    Thank you so much for mentioning my blog. Wonderful questions too. I might answer them soon.

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    1. Thank you! Yes, reality is in some ways more difficult to navigate than those moral dilemma questions because there’s so much uncertainty. Those carefully formulated questions tell you what the outcome of your actions will be before you make the choice. But in reality our choices can have unpredictable consequences and we rarely have all the information.

      That’s a nice way to look at the use of pencils! I think the ability to make changes also contributes to that feeling of connection to the work. If I come across a definite mistake made in pen, I can only feel chagrined every time I see it. But with a pencil, I can fix the misspelling or missing word so that when I review, I see the thought I wanted to capture instead of focusing on my mistakes.

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      1. My absolute pleasure. I very much agree. As much as these random questions are a pastime, I hardly think they are apt enough to evaluate someone. One’s identity is a summation of so many traits and circumstances at the same time. Narrowing it down to a certain action or attitude certainly doesn’t change that.
        That I absolutely agree. I hate it when I see some apparent error made with a pen, but cannot change it because of the fact that it looks way worse than my handwriting. And it really eats you, having made a mistake but seldom having a chance to make it right.

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  5. I only just saw this nomination, and am honoured to be listed here. Anyway, I loved your answers, and never took you for a pencil person. I myself am a pen guy, only because it’s much easier on the wrists. Thanks for sharing another slice of you 🙂

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